Close Please enter your Username and Password
Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
Password reset link sent to
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service

TCCHN 50 M
146  Articles
THE SELFISH WOMAN SYNDROME   10/23/2004

Hello! <br> You feel that your husband was selfish because he didn't give you what you needed. Fine. What about YOUR selfishness?? You never even bothered to consider what your needed from you! They need to have mom and dad at home working through the problems so that they have a good environment in which to grow up! They didn't ask to be brought into this world - YOU decided ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
TCCHN 50 M
146  Articles
THE CHEATING GIRLFRIEND   10/23/2004

Well, you've got some great armchair psychology going on. Let me ask you this: are you this girl's boyfriend, or her therapist? Trust me: you can't be both. <br> I'm not at all surprised that she doesn't seem to be investing in your trust. Why should she? She already has everything from you that she wants. There's no benefit to her to make you trust her at all! She has your love, ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
TCCHN 50 M
146  Articles
HOW TO KEEP IT "JUST SEX"   10/23/2004

Men sometimes have a problem with women - not meeting them - just keeping things as "just sex" and nothing more. Every woman I seem to meet wants the relationship thing. <br> How many men would like to have problems? <br> Keeping things "just sex" (without using professionals) involves starting correctly up front. Frankly, most women are more interested in a relationship ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
cedave 68 M
1  Article
Chat Advice   10/22/2004

Please, Please, Please, Please, Please, Please!!!!!!!!!!! <br> Everybody wants to have nice and clean chats here. Everybody is presenting his own personality. Everybody want to get at least an answer if you someone ask for a chat. Everybody wants to get sentences, a chat with answers like <br> yes no maybe I see shoud be banned and everyone knows "How ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 0 Votes
chkel18 45 F
9  Articles
feeling insecure !!!! wat should i do???   10/22/2004

....i met my bf here in fff..6 months kami mag ka relasyon sa cyber...den nag kita kami last week in person and i found out na mahal ko talaga sya kahit ano pa man...tanggap nya ko den tanggap ko rin sya im really happy ..yes i am pero ng malaman ko na may iba syang gf online 2 years silang may relasyon ...from dat time im getting insecure i dnt know why? he told me na wag mainsecure sa ...


2 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
What happens if you like 2...?   10/14/2004

I am confused. I have met two people online and now I desire to build a relationship with both of them. Actually, I am more interested in one, but I have experienced someone who shows a great interest in me. I have no idea how to handle this, because it is one thing to love someone, but then it is also flattering to have someone love you more than you love her. So, I am confused, ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
leazl28 51 F
36  Articles
WHEN I FAILED TO LISTEN   10/9/2004

When God gave out brains, I thought He said trains, and I missed mine... <br> When God gave out looks, I thought He said books, and I didn't want any... <br> When God gave out noses, I thought He said roses, and I asked for the red one... <br> When God gave out legs, I thought He said cakes, and I asked for two rounded ones... <br> When god gave out ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
leazl28 51 F
36  Articles
A must read for guys!   10/5/2004

1. When a girl says she's sad, but she isn'tcrying, it means she's crying in her heart. 2. When she ignores you after you've donesomething wrong, it's best to give her sometime to cool down before touching her heart withan apology. 3. A girl can't find anything to hate about theguy she loves (which is why it is so hard forher to 'get over him' after the relationship'sover.) 4. If a girl ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
leazl28 51 F
36  Articles
Love is like a basketball   9/23/2004

dapat give and take ang laro. syempre, one will always win, one will always lose. ganon din naman sa love di ba? laging merong nagmamahal ng higit sa isa. at yung isa laging humahabol. minsan may fouls. kasi minsan nagkakasakitan na. no relationship is perfect kaya allowed ka hanggang 6 fouls. kaso pag fouled out ka na, kelangan mo ng humanap ng ibang kalaro. ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
also for...Filipinas wake up!   9/19/2004

yes i agree w/ you Leon 21704, a lot of filipinas have been "behaving" differently from their counterparts, the traditional filipinas..i have met quite a few men, some not even westeners, who would say that there are so many filipinas asking for money over the internet, even during the "firsts" meeting, and even worst they would do anything just for money..cybersex in exchange for ...


2 Comments, 22 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
redfox28 48 F
1  Article
Men and Marriage (from a guy's point of view)...is this true???   9/18/2004

Last week we threw a bachelor party for one of our good friends and then on Saturday afternoon we stood beside him in our tuxes while he and his fiancee said their vows. As I stood up there looking across the crowd, I decided that our next topic on this page would definitely talk about marriage. I also realized that a lot of women may not want to hear the truth about men and marriage ...


1 Comments, 43 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
"kung gusto mo lumigaya ang iyong buhay!!!"   9/18/2004

when the door of HAPPINESS closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we dont see the one which has been opened for us!!!THE best kind of people is the kind you can sit on a porch& swing with, never say a word & then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've every had!!!....IT'S true that we dont know what we've got until we lose it, but ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
I'm inlove with my friend... what will i do? should i tell him?   9/11/2004

I've been seeing a friend for almost 3 months now and i'm inlove with him. should i tell him?


0 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes
09195896700 50 M
22  Articles
Romance and Pitter Patter: A Successful Mix   9/9/2004

No two people showed their love more than Jim and Della in the story of The Gift of the Magi by O. Henry. If you don't remember the story, it was about a poor couple at Christmas. The only two possessions of value in their home were Della's long, beautiful hair and Jim's watch that had once been his grandfather's. As the story goes, Della sells her hair to buy Jim a chain for his watch, and ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 16 Votes ,5.63 Score
09195896700 50 M
22  Articles
Will You Marry Me?   9/6/2004

There is no other time, than the beginning of a relationship, when couples verbally express their love for each other. This is especially true for wedding proposals. <br> Proposals and vows are words said to your partner…special statements that summarize the entire relationship. They are significant because once they are said, the course of the relationship changes from ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 25 Votes ,3.91 Score
09195896700 50 M
22  Articles
You Have a Message   9/6/2004

Leaving a phone message for your partner can be a creative way to express your feelings. All you have to do is call your partner when you know he or she isn't home. If you're at a loss for what to say, use one of the short messages suggested below. Go ahead and try one out on your partner. You may be surprised by the response you get! <br> "I didn't think about you once today. ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 24 Votes ,4.04 Score
09195896700 50 M
22  Articles
The Kiss Goodnight   9/6/2004

Whether you are married or single, before a date ends, be sure to tell your date that you are looking forward to kissing him or her on the front doorstep. By telling your partner this, it will make him or her excitedly look forward to what kind of kiss you are going to deliver. More than anything, your partner will think it's very romantic. <br> For those of you who are married or ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
09195896700 50 M
22  Articles
Musts for Better Sex   9/6/2004

Good sex is much more about attitude than technique. Sometimes the only adjustment needed is a few exercises that improve the act of making love. Although the practices below can be done alone, they are best practiced while making love with your partner. <br> Touch and be Touched The body is one big erogenous zone. Don't focus your touching exclusively on the genitals, breasts, ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
09195896700 50 M
22  Articles
The Kama Sutra Shows How to Do it Right   9/6/2004

Can you imagine a church that not only encourages its congregation to have sex, but also teaches you how to do it? It may be hard to fathom, but there is one. It's called the Church of the Tantra, dating back to 800 AD. The belief system is still practiced today in some parts of the world. Before you get too excited about waking up early next Sunday, don't expect to find this church on the ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 13 Votes ,2.47 Score
_PerFect_RelationShIp_   9/1/2004

An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye." <br> Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem, make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
...True Meaning of LOve.....   8/30/2004

LOVING SOMEONE <br> sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. we miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness.. <br> ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
....True Essence of Life.....   8/30/2004

SoMeTiMeS <br> People come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there…to serve some sort of purpose, to teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but when you lock eyes with them, you know that every moment that you are with them, they will affect your life in some ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
ChubbyGuy78 45 M
3  Articles
Committment.   8/20/2004

When we are talking about commitment, we are talking about a person staying with one person to be devoted to one person. However, in the world on online dating, having a commitment to an online relationship is probably one of the hardest to keep. When a person takes a look at this kind of a situation, you feel this might be easy to keep chatting over and over again on the same days and ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 43 Votes ,5.50 Score
voc081280 43 F
1  Article
THE GREATEST PIECES OF ADVICE   8/14/2004

Don't date because you are desperate. Don't marry because you are miserable. Don't have because you think your genes are superior. Don't philander because you think you are irresistable. Don't associate with people you can't trust. Don't cheat. Don't lie. Don't pretend. Don't dictate because you are smarter. Don't demand because you are stronger. Don't sleep around because you think you ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 19 Votes ,5.23 Score
chitsexify 63 F
21  Articles
Pure Deception   8/11/2004

A friend informed me of a certain AdultFriendFinder handle "absolute624" of which profile I have no means to check on (coz Im not a registered member of AFF)...I am not in any way, her! nor connected with her in any means and manner, and I attest to that with pure honesty. I wont file a complaint nor get mad on that lady who posted my pic for hopes of more responses. I much rather use my ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
chitsexify 63 F
21  Articles
Falling Out Of Marriage   8/11/2004

Just as we believe that marriage is a cure for two people in love...it is never a hindrance for two lovers in love. I do not promote infidelity here nor encourage married women to fall for another man. But u do not deny married women to love another man either, nor condemned them in doing so. They have their own reasons for breaking silence and coming out in the open. I believe that love ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
thewriter1193 64 F
298  Articles
Response to browneye2004's query on Philosophy   8/8/2004

"Some people say you can judge a person by the philosophy by which he lives. -browneyes2004" <br> And this is my answer. "Nice query, Mikaela but the question is 'who are we to judge?' One adage I still remember is that we have no right to look down on our fellowmen because only the Fountain Head or our Prime Mover sits that high and that only our sublime Creator has the sole ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 50 Votes ,8.72 Score
babycake 74 F
2  Articles
UPTER 24 YAERS AWAY HOME ,   7/31/2004

Upter 24 years I finaly coming home to meet a person that well give his haert to me with out condision and to give his love to me with out promese and he will make me happy with out the world coming out his mouth like bula bula lang mang, i hope this is what iam waitting for upter 13 year been alone in life i finaly fine some one who realy love me who iam in what i am iam looking ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
reply to "things learned from intergender friendship   7/24/2004

i should say that case doesn't happen only to women thinking about men's friendship as being all romantic..there are men who often mistake a woman's kindness and compliance as romantic attraction towards them, when the truth is, it could have been that the woman was just trying to be nice, or maybe she was well educated enough, or well bred, that she maintains politeness, trying to be not ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
goodcop 56 M
12  Articles
the beautiful ones   7/22/2004

Men are very visual and will have a tendency to pick a women (either in person or on an internet site), that is very good looking (gorgeous). But, men will complain that they are rejected from these women, or that these woman are rude by not responding positively. so, just like you want a beautiful woman to throw herself at you, maybe you should also try to get to know woman that are ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score