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metro_uncensored 43 F
10  questions
celebrity crushes... - 5/4/2008

Okay, I have mainly 5 crushes on celebs, and you may agree or disagree.

First up, this one is definitely D'angelo, his voice.... his music... it cannot be beat. I'm a massive fan. If you guys don't know him, should look him up.

Second crush would have to be Freddie Ljungberg considering that he won't speak. He's just plain gorgeous. I like him in indie/hippie ...

13 response(s), 4 votes
metro_uncensored 43 F
10  questions
loosing yourself in a relationship - 5/4/2008

my question is... is it possible to be in a relationship where you don't lose any parts of yourself? or you don't feel the need to negotiate any aspects of your life, etc? It's a tough one I must admit.. I'll have a think about it, meanwhile, your input would be appreciated on that

4 response(s), 5 votes
ron_0504 40 F
4  questions
He loves me or he loves me not? - 4/29/2008

Well i have this little problem that I can hardly figure it out if the man is intrested on me or not (unless they will tell it to me directly) it tagalog you can literally call me "manhid". Maybe because I just dont want to jump into a conclusion that might lead me to heartaches. So how will I know if the man is intersted on me or he just like me to be his friends?

thanks, inspired_ron

8 response(s), 1 vote
ron_0504 40 F
4  questions
What do you prefer? - 4/29/2008

Well we must admit that in choosing for our lifetime partner we set several standards (might be physical features, age difference, personality etc etc...). But most of us are on the side of choosing this certain person as our lifetime partner because of its physical attributes (well guys... ur much guilty on this part...=)

Now my question is do you prefer someone who is physically good ...

7 response(s), 3 votes
nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
Dealing with Embassing Moments....... - 4/28/2008

We were celebrating one of our niece birthday in a North Indian resturant. There were quite number of people in the resturant too. We were occupying a long table in the middle of the resturant. In total we were 16 of us, the were sitted together and followed by the rest of us and I was sitted at the last chair.

When the sizzling hot dish was rolled out to our table, the started to ...

4 response(s), 5 votes
nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
If only, If only one can say................ - 4/27/2008

One Saturday a month our frriends will gather in some pubs to watch some live soccer matches. Normally we go to the same pub where a lot of filipinas work. These girls work there as enetertainer, meaning, they sit with the customer and talk to customer.

We have know most of the girls there because they have been coming back to the same pub to "work" after every 2 or 3 months of stay in ...

4 response(s), 8 votes
ISLAND_FLOWER 53 F
2  questions
TURN OFFS - 4/26/2008

What is it that would discourage you about a person of interest? A "TURN OFF".

Be it male or a female.

This may have been discussed previous to my joining FFF.

Feel free to make a list as long or as short as you want.

I have mine but I'll wait.

9 response(s), 14 votes
TEXASIA 61 F
6  questions
Mixed Marriages Part 2 - 4/26/2008

Since this was a controversy lets clarify something.

Lets define a "mixed" marriage.

Is the marriage between 2 minorities a "mixed marriage or just 2 people from different heritage and background and beliefs?

Say, Asian & Hispanic, ,

or a person of mixed heritage & a white person? Jewish & Muslim

Catholic & Protestant?

Buddhist & Taoist? ...

7 response(s), 15 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Virtual Disappointment - 4/26/2008

This is a friends experience shared to me this afternoon...

She met him in a chat room. They began instant messaging, and then came the phone calls. She was leery at first, having never wanted a long distance relationship, but things progressed into something more.They talked for hours each day. Finally after 14 months, They were going to meet. She received flowers for her ...

10 response(s), 19 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Singleness - 4/26/2008

I guess I always thought I'd be married by around the age of 25, spend quality time with my husband for a couple of years, and then think about having . On my 27th birthday, I started to get just a little worried about my single state. Nothing major, just a little meltdown.Don't get me wrong, I'm not moping, I'm not unhappy, I love my single life, but there are times I wish I had someone to share ...

6 response(s), 19 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
I feel like a "Hottie" - 4/25/2008

I am really feeling bored this afternoon logged in at FFF ...tried chatting but there's word war at ELR so i left.

I clicked on "who viewed you" and i saw diffrent profiles that viewed me... my attention was turned to the list of handles that placed me in their "hotlist" i was like wowoweeee!!! am i HOT???

So my question is what is your criteria of puting someone on their ...

13 response(s), 15 votes
bluesapphire9365 58 F
10  questions
Road music this summer time... - 4/24/2008

Nothing can bring a family closer together or make them fidgety and irritable as quickly as the choice of music on long road trips. The trick is to find a happy compromise that can have everybody singing along in harmony...any suggestions?...care to share some type of music you enjoy while long driving? ...

14 response(s), 12 votes
rubedude 66 M
3  questions
like a boomerang? - 4/23/2008

did it ever happened for sometime in your life you became dishonest, and you think all is well, but it hits you in the back of your head like a boomerang afterwards?



6 response(s), 9 votes
nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
How do you get Attracted - 4/23/2008

As far as attraction goes, here's how you the get message.

* 55% is through body language

* 38% is the tone and speed of your voice

* 10% is by the appearance

* 7% is through what we you say

What do you think of this findings?

11 response(s), 15 votes
nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
Question for the Women (Wife) - 4/21/2008

Guys (Men), your opinion are welcome ==================================== Just curious.

Both of you - GF and BF were together for 6 years and then got married for 12 years. You both have (3 sons) together, He is a loving husband and a loving father too. A responsible man too.

One day you (wife / woman)found out ...

7 response(s), 13 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Deduction - 4/21/2008

I have this belief that if you're "ugly"/"nasty" to even one person, then you're considered an "ugly" or "nasty" person.

Do you think this is true?


EDIT: I guess this question was phrased improperly. I blame my lack of sleep. Anyways, my belief is not about exterior looks, but about the character of the person.

An example: If someone is nice to you, but is a ...

6 response(s), 6 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
"I'm not afraid to lose you." - 4/21/2008

You've heard this statement all over movies and in books. You've probably written it before, or have heard someone say it at least once. The message conveyed in this statement can be interpreted in so many different ways. What do you think of this statement?

13 response(s), 7 votes
breakthrough65 59 F
1  question
why it hurts? - 4/20/2008

i'm in love and i know i am loved...but why it hurts?...

12 response(s), 4 votes
rubedude 66 M
3  questions
Pinoy in the eyes of Pinoy? - 4/19/2008

I was in Metro Manila last year attending a some kind of fund raising gatherings, couple of months before they had bombing incident in nearby Hotel. Needless to say Filipino Security Personnels were at the entrance of this gathering. Gentlemen and ladies alike are frisk, but I can't help to notice also that most foreign race were just let thru and greeted better than their Filipino counterparts, ...

4 response(s), 6 votes
odette317 48 F
25  questions
Bossy Person - 4/19/2008

How would you interact with a very controlling person?

Within a group, we usually find one who wants to lead, who wants to control, leading may not be bad but if leading goes hand in hand with controlling I don't think that is a healthy practice. We should not impose what we want to happen, rather we plan out and work out with others what we expect to happen.

If you were in such ...

11 response(s), 8 votes
TEXASIA 61 F
6  questions
FRIEND NETWORK - 4/19/2008

How do you feel about this "Friend Network" feature of FFF?

Is it really used to make friends?

Is it used to see how many you can get to join?

What do you use it for?



I am not impressed by someone with many opposite sex friends in his network. I will not be one of them.

If he is not a friend, he is not welcome.

5 response(s), 13 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Perfect Person - 4/19/2008

What matters the most:

Having the perfect lover or having the perfect friend?

No, don't pick both. Compare the ideas. Consider these identities disjointed and separated. Anyways, if you pick both, it ruins the point of the question.

10 response(s), 9 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Fidelity - 4/18/2008

Studying protein synthesis provoked me to write this questions. Now, we all know that proteins and nucleic acids must be synthesized with high fidelity, and with that said, shouldn't be love?

I remember my childhood best friend and how she and I would play kitchen, dress up, and talk about our dream guys. We had such a great imagination, but wouldn't most 2nd graders?

Anyways, ...

0 response(s), 5 votes
jean1013712 52 F
12  questions
ENERGY POWER OF SEX? - 4/17/2008

SEX CAN RECEIVE AND GIVE ENERGY TO OUR BODY.. CAN YOU DESCRIBED THE POWER YOU GAINED AFTER YOU HAD SEX TO ...JUST A BED MATE? A LOVED MATE?

4 response(s), 4 votes
rubedude 66 M
3  questions
playing hard to get...a real turn on?...or a big turn off?? - 4/17/2008

aside from having pretty face, beautiful body, and wits ...playing hard to get is the secret to attracting opposite sexes... with the convenience of cyber world nowadays; would you agree? a real turn on??? a big turn off???...

12 response(s), 11 votes
TEXASIA 61 F
6  questions
Interested but unnoticed - 4/16/2008

I am very much interested in a certain man here in FFF. He is still sulking over a lost love. How can I get his attention and in a subtle way show him that I am interested? I do not want to throw myself at him. Don't suggest winking.

10 response(s), 6 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
Think of something you need to be successful in the dating and commitment world. - 4/14/2008

What do you think is something you need to be "successful" in the dating world? What do you think is something that keeps a relationship strong?



What is going to make you stand out amongst all the possible bachelors and bachelorettes in the pool?

What will make you the hottest item in the market?

2 response(s), 7 votes
metro7 43 F
10  questions
If your life were to end now, what unsettling business would you settle? - 4/14/2008

What would you do? Would you tell the love of your life that you love him/her? Would you spend more time with your family and ? Would you travel more? Would you spend all your life savings on that one dream car? Would you go sky diving? Be it one thing or a list of things, I would still like to hear it!

5 response(s), 6 votes
nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
Plight of Single Mother - 4/14/2008

Excuse me!! Is that true? Single mother’s population in the Philippines are ncreasing? And some single mother’s age is as low as 19yrs old and in the average age of the single mother is between 23 to 25 years old? Most of the single mothers are not a married!

If it is true, if the boyfriend does not support her or if he ran away, the baby has to be taken care by the mother, ...

10 response(s), 17 votes
nocturnal392 57 M
28  questions
Topic about Divorce be allowed in the Philippines - 4/14/2008

Ladies and Gentlemen, first and foremost, I wanted to highlight that the topic “Should Divorce be allowed in the Philippines” Posted by “LuvMe1000” was one of the interesting threads. I enjoyed all contribution and the participant in that thread were fanastic.

I have extracted some interesting contribution from that thread And would like to have your view. ...

8 response(s), 13 votes