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BobBY_JaY 42 M
1  question
how do i get over you? - 5/28/2004

i'm just gonna keep this short and simple (kinda really hard for me to talk about it)...i fell in love with this person and we broke up like five months ago. how do u get over someone you've learned to love and trust so much..that you have actually given her ur whole world after all the lying and continuous cheating she gave in return?.. <br> how do or will i get over ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
virgo0969 54 F
1  question
Is it not right for a commited one like me to view the profile of other guy-members here? - 5/27/2004

I feel very happy and complete now. And I have all the reasons to feel this way. I have finally met my soulmate and I'm very thankful to have found this very wonderful man. I even revised my profile to show the world that I'm done searching. And so far, everything's doing pretty well. Right now, I still go to this site to keep in touch with the good people I met here who eventually became ...

5 response(s), 2 votes
mhourhyn 47 F
7  questions
Why do smart people become stupid when they fall in love? - 5/24/2004

I've seen this so many times but still, the answers are just left unsaid.

2 response(s), 2 votes
d_d_102003 43 F
2  questions
Do Soulmates Exist? - 5/23/2004

I had thought of love as an ideal if ever realized. I have been told that love, like faith, could move mountains, conquer evil, and put adversity to shame. Yet even when I seemed to be experiencing it, I found it transient, fragile, possessive, often cruel, consuming itself with the very passion that set it apart. <br> This was something that had always been, and would always ...

4 response(s), 0 votes
simonsimple81 42 M
1  question
is there a real commitment in a chat that is short-lived?.... - 5/21/2004

True, we love to chat, talk and most especially because we search and look forward to someone, we believe we can spend our lives with or for seeking the right partner we have visioned..but do u really believe when one has committed oneself(which is barely a few days not even into a few good weeks) there can be really that true commitment from that person?..what if i say that the occasion ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
Sunshine84 40 F
1  question
Women and Men who think they are. - 5/12/2004

I prefer women to men, but quite fancy going out with a male who dresses as a female. Do you have an option to search for such people?

1 response(s), 0 votes
i cannot believe, but i am thankful.. - 5/10/2004

i have always made chatting part of my daily activities because i find relevance in my life doing this exercise..however, little expectations were there to believe that connections could be done, not only to find love, but to find an offer (wihtout asking love in return), that could make oneself better and improved what life one has already or have a better prospect for that matter, all ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
ddbs_ph 44 M
6  questions
may tunay na pag ibig ba, sa mga taong tulad natin? - 5/8/2004

Its been a long time na rin ang ginagawang kung paghahanap pero bakit palagi nalang wala akong mahanap. Kailangan ko na bang tumigil? kailangan ko na bang sabihin sa sarili ko to stop dahil wala naman talagang ganoon uri ng pagmamahal?

7 response(s), 0 votes
mykie114069 66 M
1  question
How do I explain I want a noncommited relationship to possible dates? - 5/5/2004

I want to date without commitment. It seems everyone is looking so hard for mr. Right that they forgot how to have fun just dating. I want to know how to tactfully explain that im not looking for my future, just want to enjoy today! Tomorrow will take care of itself.

1 response(s), 0 votes
khaye 43 F
3  questions
SISA (Single But Satisfied): Satisfied Ka Nga Ba? - 4/29/2004

"Since you've been gone I can do whatever I want I can see whoever I choose..." <br> - Nothing Compares To You By Sinead O'Connor <br> How do you handle being alone? Sometimes we said to ourselves, okay lang ako, I'm happy with what I have and I'm contented with my life... no headaches, no worries... but most of the time, especially at night, we find ourselves alone, ...

5 response(s), 0 votes
simply_abbie 52 F
2  questions
Do you think filipinos have weird taste in food?? - 4/27/2004

Hey, co-fff member! Before you answer this question better read the article I posted in the Relationship Humor titled: "Pinoy's taste in food--from a British Point of View". It's funny but very true, though

2 response(s), 0 votes
why so appreciative the first time and then... - 4/24/2004

it is always nice to know someone gets interested and all appreciative of you the first time, days and weeks pass you still find the same attention and care, but alas when everything has gotten so familiar as being too close between couples, the months, weeks and days become minimal into hours and minutes as they go..what could be the reason behind?..there is even none to show or reflect ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Sweetlittlelen 45 F
10  questions
Why some foreign nationalities prefer to marry Filipino women than other women in the world? - 4/24/2004

Why some foreign nationalities prefer to marry Filipino women than other women in the world? Maybe Pinays are more lovable and very family oriented than other women. Pinays are more loyal, sweeter and more loving to their partners.

2 response(s), 0 votes
Sweetlittlelen 45 F
10  questions
What makes PINAY unique from other nationalities? - 4/24/2004

PINAYS are very dedicated and loyal to their husbands.They value their family more than anything else in the world.

3 response(s), 0 votes
SimpleMe2003 54 F
3  questions
What really matters most - Career or Lovelife? - 4/23/2004

I was asking this question so many times to myself..... I had designed my goals and set my priorities in life. I convinced myself that it is the best for me. That it will make me happy for the rest of my LIFE! I work hard to make my dream a reality...... Now, that I'm very successful with my career, I got a very supportive family and friends...... What should I ask for? It seems that I have ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
d_d_102003 43 F
2  questions
Which would you prefer: "Honesty" or "Deceit"? - 4/23/2004

a friend of mine has been on this site for a while and have met several guys including married ones . . . <br> she sure knows and understands the basics on this dating game over the net . . . chat, give out cel/landline numbers, meet and get the feel of it . . . after a while, you would surely know if it would work or not . . . <br> however, she doesn't get the point why ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
Why some guys lie about their marital status? - 4/21/2004

I just can't understand why some guys here lie about their marital status.. were they here just to fool around and play with a woman's emotions?

5 response(s), 0 votes
star23 42 F
1  question
"Would he be the one for me?" - 4/20/2004

My boyfriend died just recently and it really broke my heart that I almost die. I still mises him so much that up to this time I still cry everytime I remembered him. We have been together for almost five years now and supposed to get married this coming May...but things did not go the way I hope and wished for...I tried to go on with my life now and I just focus myself to my work that I ...

5 response(s), 0 votes
stephie24 44 F
2  questions
father of your or your parents?which one you choose? - 4/20/2004

they say his irresponsible because he doesn't have job for 3 yrs.now and he doesn't visited his for almost a 6 mons. because the girl parents told him to back off.But he and the girl still in contact thru phone and letter.what do you think, is the boy really irresponsible?

3 response(s), 0 votes
i just notice..why need be like that? - 4/19/2004

I have always made my reactions to all questions in this site..i can't help noticing some tinges or allusions of sarcasms, whether intentionally done or not, to replies sent by some respondents, although i believe also in freedom of speech and expression..it could be best or understood perhaps, that not everybody would have a perfect or a fluency in english/tagalog writings, spellings, ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
stephie24 44 F
2  questions
why pinoys likes to marry other nationality? - 4/19/2004

why we always look up other nationality, are filipinos unsatisfiable?

4 response(s), 0 votes
khaye 43 F
3  questions
Honesty in a Relationship: How Much Honesty You Should Give? - 4/6/2004

How honest should you be with a partner... How much of yourself should you bare... <br> some people say that knowing everything about the other takes out the thrill in the relationship.. <br> while other say sharing each others deepest secrets make their relationship stronger... <br> wat dya think?

4 response(s), 0 votes
Why do girls try and control us - 4/5/2004

Why is it once i get into a relation everything is going well, then after a few months the girl starts dictating to me, what i should do far as my business, and my social life, and even my home life, its happened twice now and ive called the relationships of purly for that reason.

4 response(s), 0 votes
khaye 43 F
3  questions
Chinese sha, pure-bred pinay ako.... - 3/29/2004

I don't know if I was really born to be in multiple serious heartaches or sadya talagang madaming chinese ang isinilang sa pinas...or in my past life I was really a chinese that's why I get to involve with a lot of chinese men (if there's really such a thing as reincarnation). <br> Last month I stopped dating pat for reasons that I know we can never be together coz his ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
disyembre 68 F
1  question
Address stated says: Philippines but not actually living in the Philippines? - 3/28/2004

I noticed that everytime I search for Filipino male members , there are members who are actually living in other countries that have written Philippines as their country of residence. Some of them could not even write the correct spelling of Philippines, yet they would attached to their address- Manila, NCR, Central Luzon, Mindanao etc etc but in fact they do not live in the Philippines. ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
thewriter1193 64 F
9  questions
FORGIVE ME IF I LIED... - 3/23/2004

FORGIVE ME IF I LIED… <br> <br> I met this woman from Bulacan via interenet more than two months ago. I became extremely happy since then. She served as my inspiration to get by, my safety net, my power to hold on and my strength to face life’s tribulations. Despite her busy schedule, she managed to chat with me from 2 to 4 hours daily, text me and ...

5 response(s), 8 votes
mhourhyn 47 F
7  questions
Why is it easy for the guys to fall in and out of love so fast? - 3/18/2004

Why so? Guys can easily jump one girl into another even if their past girlfriends are still inlove with them?

3 response(s), 0 votes
retnurse 71 M
1  question
WHY ARE SO MANY FEMALE PROFILES ON FFF INCOMPLETE? - 3/15/2004

I am constantly amazed with the lack of information that many of the female profiles contain. Come on ladies, if you want to get my attention, you must give me a little information. I must assume that profiles are placed on this site in hopes of attracting someone. It takes more then 1 poor quality photo to get my attention. There are a lot more things about a woman that makes her ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
PLEASE REACT IF U ARE FILIPINO - 3/13/2004

I like to share this one, forwarded to me by a friend i met in this website..please ur reaction as Filipinos to this degrading composition that is being extensively circularized is a "MUST".. thanks!! <br> I would urge all progressive people to write to the radio network that carries Art Bell's programs (he is into UFOs, Lost city of Atlantis etc type of stuff) and attach this ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
why not try to find an alternative means, say finding a work for stable income to stop doing this??? - 2/27/2004

I have been related a lot of stories on filipinas trying to ask older men here (although not only in this website, but true for all other chat capable sites) for some monetary assistance for some reason or another..from guys they have just met and that gives a very disgraceful image of most if not all of filipinas. Seemingly, these same ones just come in to chat for the purpose alone of ...

3 response(s), 0 votes