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theta2011 53F
781 posts
6/16/2013 7:45 am
CRAZY CHANCE

The irony of the thing.. 2 of the 3 people I didn't expect to add me in efbee showed up. I received the invite 5 days apart but they both unfriended me the same day (last thursday) CRAZY CHANCE!!..I can only guess what's in their mind. I'm not excessively happy but I'm enjoying living - my pix can tell and verbal gaiety. Whats wrong with moving on? They expect me to be salivating in my own misery not having them around. Btw, they're both 'Xs'. Even an Xfriend commented that I was 'PUSONG BATO. If they can only see what my heart went thru - minced meat for the fishes. Luckily, I was saved by my own sanity - I've yet to discover my greatest purpose.

Acceptance is the key. We may not have what we wanted but come to think of it, we may already have what we needed.

Theta signing in.



godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
6/16/2013 11:43 am

Well, Thet, first of all, WELCOME BACK TO SANE BLOGGING (after all the...) ...What can I say? Some guys cannot accept the fact that some women like you are strong enough to be called "survivors" of lost love...Maybe, they wanted to know the latest about you, and when they found out that you are doing and looking great, they actually feel being "losers" as opposed to them expecting you to be the one...Tsk!tsk!tsk!....Ang mga Lalaki nga naman...(hindi naman lahat) mahirap pa ring ispelengin....

ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
6/16/2013 3:09 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Well, Thet, first of all, WELCOME BACK TO SANE BLOGGING (after all the...) ...What can I say? Some guys cannot accept the fact that some women like you are strong enough to be called "survivors" of lost love...Maybe, they wanted to know the latest about you, and when they found out that you are doing and looking great, they actually feel being "losers" as opposed to them expecting you to be the one...Tsk!tsk!tsk!....Ang mga Lalaki nga naman...(hindi naman lahat) mahirap pa ring ispelengin....

Buti na lang me "inde naman lahat". Baka ako tinamaan. Sabagay madali na ispelingin ang KABERT


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
6/16/2013 3:14 pm

Theta, you know I've always admired your outlook in life and relationship. I think you're an emotional but a practical woman and no hurt nor pain can be bring you down. Just keep going, don't wait for the light at the end of the tunnel. As it is you bring brightness around you. Welcome back to blogging. :

I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


sunshiny_f 70F
1221 posts
6/17/2013 4:05 am

hi ms theta.. we do not brood about the past because it will never help us. anymore. what one can do is move on,, with heads up high but still be thnkful to ur x's because they made u see things in ur own clear perspective. made u stronger. i believe u deserve better than them.. life is beautiful!!!be beautiful!

sunshiny


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/17/2013 5:49 am

    Quoting  :

'te PAM,

Thanks..so good to be back blogging tho' di naman ako nawala, nag hibernate lang.

Thats what I'm doing 'te. Take inspirations from the PAST so I wont make the same mistakes again, living TODAY like its always going to be my best day, and looking forward to TOMORROW.

Everytime in the morning, at the beginning of a day - a silent prayer of gratitude - its good to be alive, renewed chance, renewed hope.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/17/2013 5:56 am

    Quoting _dimasalang_:
    at every end of the day, what matters most is that you are at peace and settled inside yourself. If PUSONG BATO is what it takes to achieve that state... so be it! And I am with you, always.


    *bow
Dimas,

Hey welcoming me back and you to my blogs. Thanks. I know how well can you be so supportive What matters most is that you sleep peacefully knowing that peace within thyself.

Ugh, 'pusong bato'? Thats an overstatement..maybe 'pusong mamon in a garapon'..


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/17/2013 6:06 am

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Well, Thet, first of all, WELCOME BACK TO SANE BLOGGING (after all the...) ...What can I say? Some guys cannot accept the fact that some women like you are strong enough to be called "survivors" of lost love...Maybe, they wanted to know the latest about you, and when they found out that you are doing and looking great, they actually feel being "losers" as opposed to them expecting you to be the one...Tsk!tsk!tsk!....Ang mga Lalaki nga naman...(hindi naman lahat) mahirap pa ring ispelengin....
I know what you mean - the 'flooging'..Well. if we can't beat 'im, we can join 'im

Thank you ELZ. Nice to be back now that the 'real' bloggers are here..

Yeah I guess, they expected to see a broken me..how men's ego can be bigger than their ba**s?- HINDI PO LAHAT

Live happy. Why cant they?


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/17/2013 6:20 am

    Quoting  :

Tajane,

You witnessed how I came to stand and held my ground after a heartbreak. Its not easy, its painful but with it came - the realization that you have to win it over and be done with hurt and sorrows for the people who believe, love and care for you. The very same people who will help bring out the smiles and laughter once again.

I'm just happy now to bother with 'Xs'. I'd rather watch X-MEN

Yes 'te, lets just enjoy the goodness of life - EB and lakwatsa

Mosa ko sa PM mo..Wala na sa efbee


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/17/2013 6:22 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    Buti na lang me "inde naman lahat". Baka ako tinamaan. Sabagay madali na ispelingin ang KABERT

Agree. Di naman lahat


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/17/2013 6:34 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:
    Theta, you know I've always admired your outlook in life and relationship. I think you're an emotional but a practical woman and no hurt nor pain can be bring you down. Just keep going, don't wait for the light at the end of the tunnel. As it is you bring brightness around you. Welcome back to blogging. :
Ka Bert,

The admiration is mutual for the sane blogging lang po

As always you reminded me that I'm a good person, sometimes I forget from petty things like this. And I would ask: What have I done wrong this time? It should be - I've done something good that they want me to mess up.

Thanks for friends - marami ako nyan dito Thanks Old for being one.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/17/2013 6:42 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you MIZZ.. Good thing we can choose friends who can share positivity, like BF/GF..who can give added happiness and beauty to our lives..

But as it is, there are all kinds, you have to try to know the difference, and then you select. They say choose wisely, I'll say choose what will make you happy

Stay safe..


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/17/2013 6:43 am

    Quoting  :

Ka Tony,

I have yet to read your aha moment! Give me a sec.

Thanks.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/17/2013 6:57 am

    Quoting sunshiny_f:
    hi ms theta.. we do not brood about the past because it will never help us. anymore. what one can do is move on,, with heads up high but still be thnkful to ur x's because they made u see things in ur own clear perspective. made u stronger. i believe u deserve better than them.. life is beautiful!!!be beautiful!

    sunshiny
Sunshiny,

You're right, just keep moving on for life is all about it. The past wont do you any good, but some throwbacks will help us decide not to imitate the mistakes we once made, the lessons we learned we use today. The very same lessons that makes our countenance stronger.

Everyone deserves the best - But everyone should try to be the best too..I'll try to be.

Thanks sis.


jane82 110F

6/17/2013 7:43 pm

sis Theta never mind the critics. I can relate. I'm relieved that the ex can't get me in FB.

While you might be accused of having a heart of stone. I've been called the ice queen. As we both know ourselves, they don't know us as well and probably don't deserve to know. It's just as well they become exes. Part of history.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/18/2013 5:33 am

    Quoting jane82:
    sis Theta never mind the critics. I can relate. I'm relieved that the ex can't get me in FB.

    While you might be accused of having a heart of stone. I've been called the ice queen. As we both know ourselves, they don't know us as well and probably don't deserve to know. It's just as well they become exes. Part of history.
Janey,

Even I can block them or critics not to post or comment something derogatory about me, still I cant bring myself to do. I know 'me' better than they do. Anyway, if they dont matter to me anymore, ergo, what they say dont matter too.

You know what they say that you cant please everybody, at least I get to please my friends - and that is most important.

Stay lovely and enjoy life sis..


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
6/18/2013 10:28 am

Thet,

You're a very strong lady!!! The past is the past. That's where it belongs...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/19/2013 5:19 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Thet,

    You're a very strong lady!!! The past is the past. That's where it belongs...
'te Tess,

As we should be, we have to be strong after a heartbreak and redeem ourselves being at the losing end. Why cant we turn it the other way around. Yeah.

Thanks 'te. Stay well.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/19/2013 5:23 am

Dimas,

Handle with care? Is it the heart or the garapon? And whose heart? Mine or Tajoolz? Oh oh...


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/20/2013 5:39 am

    Quoting _dimasalang_:
    For safety's sake, I will say "the garapon".

    ...and oist* I think I made my position quite clear when I welcomed everyone to our pilyo-ship
Dimas,

Playing safe Cassanova Goodluck to your pilyo-ship


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/26/2013 6:46 am

    Quoting  :

Tinks,

Member ka na pala hehehe...si Dimas founder.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/26/2013 6:49 am

    Quoting _dimasalang_:
    mahirap kasi if i say: "I will hold your heart". You might mistake my intentions. I said i will hold the "garapon" nalang - that is so that whatever the trials life might throw us, I will still handle "it" (your heart*) with care.


    *bow
Dimas,

Ah um, nope..I dont think that way. More like a fatherly gesture Peace.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/27/2013 6:30 am

    Quoting _dimasalang_:
    what a subtle way to say: "suko na ako" *hehehehe
Ah umm..ahh.. Thanks for understanding


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/29/2013 5:22 am

    Quoting  :

Dred,

Either way yeah, and anyway They have reasons far valid than I can conceive. And good for me, I added friends extending bridges. Bet they knew me not to mess up anymore and I'll go berserk.

Thank you for the comment. Ciao bella


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
6/29/2013 5:25 am

    Quoting  :

Louie,

Almost missed your comment by an inch. Of course everybody's welcome. Hey, no problem. Thanks2.

Happy reading and blogging