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If You Were In My Place, ---What will you do?
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Elz, Kung security lang. No way. I always believe men should provide. Hopefully, he will be ready na. Anyways, at least there was some bonding... Happy Tuesday Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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Oh wow! this is a very impressive contribution of thoughts! ...I will wait for more comments so that we can really have a very nice interactions...I thank you already..
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Elz, I have more questions to ask than advice to give, I'll call you when I get back. I was in his situation once so I won't pass judgement on him. Just keep enjoying being single. Lightning strikes when you least expect it. I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything
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Elz, Kung security lang. No way. I always believe men should provide. Hopefully, he will be ready na. Anyways, at least there was some bonding... Happy Tuesday
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Mr. AB, you are very smart, and honestly, I believe, you are right with your opinion. I find him "okay", but I think, given the chance, I'd like someone whose kids are grown up or are no longer living with him, because mine is..His personality is such that he can be withdrawn. I've known him a bit in High School, but we were not that close. I was with a group of extroverts, while he was mostly in the library studying. Also, the reason why I can sense his unreadiness is the fact that he is into so much with the kids, into finding a much better paying job (he used to work for Pfizer before recession and was making a lot of money), wanting to look for another house/apt. to move in, what and what not. I'm thinking, "where am I supposed to be situated?"...I know myself better than being just another person in his life. My goodness! I was spoiled by my parents, spoiled by the significant others in my life, and I spoil myself..I don't think, I'd settle for something "JUST"....
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Ms. Iris, I thank you kindly for your very impressive opinion and citing a very relevant example. To answer your question, Yes! I am attracted to him (intellectually, and physically) enough to give him a chance to take the lead and to prove to me that he is worth having. But through the course of that brief getting to know each other, he showed disappointment as soon as I told him that at this point, I am NOT into marriage. It kinda made me wonder, why would a man be disappointed right away, when he hasn't even courted me officially? What seems to be the rush? What is the motive behind? And I also told him that I cannot be "rushed" at all, that I always take my time before even committing myself to anybody. Why can't a man prove himself first, make all the right moves, show some romance (Dohhhhh! ) and sweep me off my feet. But then again, maybe, he is frustrated also because of the presence of his two daughters most of the time..No PRIVATE moments...We were like a "family" where I played like a visiting surrogate mother..hahahaha!
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Besides, he told me during our casual conversations that he warned his teenage daughter NOT to have a BF, otherwise, he will have a GF too! ...Meaning, if he starts a relationship with me, it's like giving his daughter the go-signal to be in a relationship too! ...So, guys, be careful what you tell your children, coz, you never know when it's gonna boomerang on you..
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Elz, I have more questions to ask than advice to give, I'll call you when I get back. I was in his situation once so I won't pass judgement on him. Just keep enjoying being single. Lightning strikes when you least expect it.
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Thanks, Marivic, I am glad that I am not alone in this predicament. It's like, okay, I AM READY, but ARE YOU?
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Honestly, my BFF, I was prepared for some romance, but you know me, (I'm a Modern Maria Clara) I won't initiate it. Two things that turned me off was when he said he didn't want LDR (Long Distance Relationship) anymore, and that he wants marriage....Those were an like ice splashes on my face...I guess, you can relate with your Lee, where he didn't want to relocate to CA...
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Sorry to disappoint you Tess. I know that you were one of those very hopeful...But, during the brief conversations, I actually counter-asked him if he is ready to have another relationship. His answer was not very convincing. I cited myself and my "criteria" for readiness. I also told him that if "ever" I enter into another relationship, I want my "own space" in my man's heart, and separate quality attention from him, aside from his children. I frankly told him that at this point, his kids demand most of his time, and it is going to be difficult to take that away from them... Yes, i was disappointed. That's were expectation really is a miss and hit sometimes. Kaya, i gave up na rin. Platonic lang after hoping. Oh, well... Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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Pero Jepoy, bakit ganun? Everytime I am ready to take the chance, it just becomes platonic in the end...? I cannot be accused that I really did not give love a chance after all these years... Hayz...I don't understand why some men would talk about marriage when they have not even touched base.., already talking about the home run..
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Elz, Yes, i was disappointed. That's were expectation really is a miss and hit sometimes. Kaya, i gave up na rin. Platonic lang after hoping. Oh, well...
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Mr/ AB, I think, waiting for 14 years is long enough to be really PATIENT...lolz..
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Maia, as conservative as I am, I think, I've given some men, quite a push...I just don't know if it really sinks into them or they just don't get it, because they're so into their own feeling of inadequacies or they're so into themselves, that they fail to see..
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Another one bites the dust I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything
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When will it ever be? Oh when will it everrrrrr bee I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything
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Hhahahaha! Mr. AB, I guess you've known me quite enough to anticipate my responses
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My dear, Dehins ko kaya ang maging "ONLY, and JUST"...toinkz...which is why, up to this moment, I am happily SINGLE... But thank you very much for your smart opinion. I really like my readers to be straightforward with their opinions and advices, if any...I truly appreciate it..
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Another one bites the dust
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When will it ever be? Oh when will it everrrrrr bee
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Maia, all I'm asking is my own space and attention apart from the kids...Whoever will be the lucky guy in the future, if he has kids (na sana grown up na...hayz), we will both love them!
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Exactly my point, Jepoy! Natumbok mo as in "bull's eye~!"...Ako pa! eh, bilog kaya ang ulo ko ano?... I wasn't born yesterday, and most definitely, I did not grow old to be foolish...
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Alam mo, Bert, kasalanan mo lahat ito eh! ...lolz ..You always pressure me into having a man in my life...toinkz...Hayan~ tingnan mo naman.. Elz, a straight woman is always happier with the right man. That's all I wish for my single lady friends. Here's an excerpt from a song by Atomic Kitten. To all my lady friends: Don't let your head rule you heart Don't let your world be torn apart Don't keep it all to yourself Just let all your emotions run free with someone like me That's the way it should be Someone like me I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything
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Elz, a straight woman is always happier with the right man. That's all I wish for my single lady friends. Here's an excerpt from a song by Atomic Kitten. To all my lady friends: Don't let your head rule you heart Don't let your world be torn apart Don't keep it all to yourself Just let all your emotions run free with someone like me That's the way it should be Someone like me
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