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Fear Of the Unknown?..or Fear of Fear? |
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5/4/2016 3:26 am |
I only have two romantic relationships in the past , MeAnn. One I was married to and one lasted for almost 4 1/2 years. They were both bittersweet. As a matter of fact, super bittersweet. The last one gave me the best memories and the best of everything, but I had to give him up because of religious and cultural reasons. My ex-hubby gave me the best thing I ever had, a wonderful son. Other than that, he was weakened by the distance between us (USA and RP). He succumbed to this evil called infidelity. It took me very long time to recover fro both, and I never trusted anyone again . There were a couple of MU's that never materialized. And now, happily single is my new name. Love expired. Thanks for sharing your story. Mine is an open book but only here in FFF. Not in FB.
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I can't comment much on this because women have different perspective from men. But let me just mention that women are more choosy or picky than men. They expect a lot despite their denial that they don't. They want to be happy for themselves now because they were happy for their partners before and it didn't work. I better stop now before I start an argument I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything
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5/4/2016 10:38 pm |
Yes, Marivic! We feel the same about being single now and we both enjoy the travels and the good times with the special friends we knew from here. We also "tested the waters" and it didn't feel right . Now, we are just content that Yes, we are in our 50's but we should be proud that we took good care of ourselves. We even enjoy the compliments of others
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5/4/2016 10:41 pm |
I can't comment much on this because women have different perspective from men. But let me just mention that women are more choosy or picky than men. They expect a lot despite their denial that they don't. They want to be happy for themselves now because they were happy for their partners before and it didn't work. I better stop now before I start an argument
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5/4/2016 10:47 pm |
Jane, I really admire your openness and wisdom. Your thoughts inspire us . Your literary eloquence is very natural. You were so deep into writing from before and yet, you transformed and reached out even to those who cannot grasp the gists of your masterpieces. You have lived your life and gave love too many chances. Until this time, you nener fail to charm men in all ages.
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5/4/2016 10:48 pm |
* of all ages
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5/5/2016 1:38 pm |
Ruttie, well, the good thing is, despite and inspite of, you're still together and that's what all that matters
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5/7/2016 12:29 am |
I love my "single blessedness" which sometimes turns me into a dominatrix.. lol
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It is not fear but.... next ...
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ELZ, Fear is relative to everything we do. How much more if it concerns love? To overcome fear is to face it head on, the way to face love. I'll say - go for love, should it come along. Regardless, but heck am a risk taker -
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Tinks dear sorry for the delayed response I think there will be expectations no matter how minimal it is.
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I love my "single blessedness" which sometimes turns me into a dominatrix.. lol
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ELZ, Fear is relative to everything we do. How much more if it concerns love? To overcome fear is to face it head on, the way to face love. I'll say - go for love, should it come along. Regardless, but heck am a risk taker -
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Sorry guys! I have to use my other handle coz FFF does not allow me to log on with my eb1209 account. Im using my celfone right now. Pls bear with me
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5/14/2016 2:54 am |
It is not fear but.... next ...
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5/14/2016 2:57 am |
By the way, I am back with my old handle
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