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What About Rejection The pain we bear because we have been rejected breaks a heart full of desire. So true when you speak of a relationship that didn't end well. Even at work, say creating a manuscrit for publishing, when your editor says, it cannot go, goes a tearful sight and feeling. A solution being proposed when you thought you have done your best, catapults your enthusiasm into a frustration and discovering the brain has degenerated, not being able do the desired result. Pity is the who_ gets rejected by his parents because it_is obvious he is not the apple of their eyes. What about when beaus try their best to_ woo the love of their life and gets jilted or dumped? Oh yes! 's all about pain and terrible disappointment, but that will be temporary.. Meaning, that doesnt end everything. Rejection is simply a redirection of your efforts. cannot be terminal. It_becomes a way to_ correct your movements and position, with you having in mind the purpose. There_ is no drawback in your intentions, whatever that could be. You just carry on! I do feel the past rejections in my life, have now been repurposed. There_ is no going back only_ this fotward movement of what I keep on aiming for, no matter the age am in. may not be what you find_ as_ luck but something rewarding after all and despite the setbacks. 
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How easy was it for you to have recovered from a very heavy or deep rejection? Me? it took me almost all of my life, can you believe that? Well, nothing is perfect, so just keep trying to perfect what we find imperfect. It can be very diificult but in the end, you get to accept (and not criticize) what is imperfect..... lol
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veering away is not rejection right? it is something that you do reconnoietering about, so you know how to plan it well the next time..but sometimes our emotions carry us away..that the same rejection is at the end of the tunnel...turning to te Lord i bet will have no rejection for us...
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At some point in our lives, we have experienced different types of rejection. I guess, when I was searching for a job ( I wasn't a nurse then), I was rejected because I did not have any experience, and so, I had to apply to at least 10 companies at a time and be impressive during interviews to make them "buy" me as another trainable asset to their company. Then, this broken heart type of rejection. When you fall in love and for some reason it failed, and you thought you've done your best, you also feel rejected even if you were the one who initiated the break-up. I've been on that road twice, and I promised myself I am not going for the 3rd...Other rejection comes from immediate relatives...I feel rejected when I don't feel the love if I don't have to give something..That hurts because I see myself as being used. ELZ 
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At some point in our lives, we have experienced different types of rejection. I guess, when I was searching for a job ( I wasn't a nurse then), I was rejected because I did not have any experience, and so, I had to apply to at least 10 companies at a time and be impressive during interviews to make them "buy" me as another trainable asset to their company. Then, this broken heart type of rejection. When you fall in love and for some reason it failed, and you thought you've done your best, you also feel rejected even if you were the one who initiated the break-up. I've been on that road twice, and I promised myself I am not going for the 3rd...Other rejection comes from immediate relatives...I feel rejected when I don't feel the love if I don't have to give something..That hurts because I see myself as being used.
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